Lake's Legacy

In just over a week, the post I wrote about Coach Billy Lake has received 720 views. This is more than 12 times the views I usually have for postings. That number is a testament to the kind of person Lake was and the lives he touched. It speaks volumes about him.

You really never know the impact you can have on others. Lake devoted his life to working with young men, sharing his love for football among other things. I wonder if he ever thought about the influence he had on their lives. I'm sure he knew that what he did was meaningful, but like so many of us, I don't know if he truly understood the magnitude of it.

We all come into contact with people on a daily basis. Whether we know it or not, whether it's intentional or coincidence, we all impact the lives of those around us. Some more than others, but none are exempt. And it's worth thinking about: what kind of influence are you? It's easy to get caught up and bogged down with life. If you're like me, there aren't enough hours in the day for the things you need to do, and people seem to line up to ask more of you. When you're stretched to your limit, it's easy to overlook the opportunities around you. The chances to lighten someone's load or brighten their day. The chance to be a friend or to make one. The chance to make someone feel appreciated or loved or worthwhile.

Several years ago, something happened in my life taught me the value of offering encouragement. Of being a friend. Of saying what's on your heart. Sometimes we dont do or say those things because we don't want to upset someone or be perceived as nosey or bother anyone. But, if you feel like offering help or a kind word, do it. You have no idea how badly that person might need to hear it.

Likewise, don't be a negative influence. There was a time when I struggled with anger and resentment and worse towards another person. I knew I shouldn't feel that way, so I tried not to let it consume me. One day, a well-meaning coworker sat down with me and began commenting on how much she would hate that person if it were her and what she would want to say to them. She thought she was being helpful. She was actually making it harder for me to handle the situation properly.

My point? We effect each other. In good ways and in bad ways. I want my influence to be a positive one. Lake's death is a tragedy. It's still hard to accept. But no matter how sad and hurt we are by something, we can learn from it. Lake taught so many young men in his life, and he's taught me some important things in his death. Life holds many lessons for us all. Honor Coach Lake by being a positive influence on those around you. Use each day as an opportunity to change someone's life for the better.